“‘I am the Lord’s servant,’ Mary answered. ‘May it be to me as you have said.’” (Luke 1:38)
This was Mary’s response when an angel suddenly appeared and informed her that she had been chosen by God to carry the long awaited Messiah, the Savior of the world. “I am the Lord’s servant, may it be to me as you have said.”
Is that how we respond to God when unexpected things come our way?
Because, while we all consider Mary a hero on this side of the story, that title is generally earned by doing really hard things. Being the birth mother of the Messiah could not have been an easy task!
Let’s be real. If the angel were being a little more straightforward, he might have said something like this:
“Mary, because you’ve been so faithful, God has chosen you for a most difficult assignment. Should you choose to accept this mission, you will endure public ridicule and shame. Your beloved Joseph will most likely believe you betrayed him. Since he’s a nice guy, he might quietly divorce you, but there’s always the risk he will have you stoned to death in the public square instead. On the off chance he sticks around, you know people will be whispering about you wherever you go. You will have to leave your family, your home…
Oh yeah, and this baby? Raising the Son of God will not be as easy as you think. The story will play out a little differently than expected. Eventually people will honor your place in God’s story, but first you must endure the loss of that which you love most. You must place this child on the altar before his heart even flutters within you, and you must promise not to hinder that which will surely shatter your mama-heart. This is a gift of great joy for all the people, but it will cost you tremendous grief. So… are you in?”
“I am the Lord’s servant. May it be to me as you have said.”
Now granted, Mary did not know all the trials that lay ahead, but she had to at least know the immediate repercussions of this unexpected announcement.
And still, she chose obedience, without hesitation.
In this season of advent, I am asking myself this question: When God brings me hard assignments, do I respond with such an accepting, obedient heart? With such trusting faith?
These are hard things. Unexpected things. Seemingly impossible things.
But nothing is impossible with God.
The gospel accounts do not tell us why Mary was chosen to be the mother of Jesus. But the fact that her immediate response was “I am the Lord’s servant” is a good indication of why she found favor with God. My guess is that Mary had proven herself faithful in the little things, day in and day out. She did not search for her identity in her beauty or her father’s name or her future marriage. She did not need the approval of others to define her worth. How do we know?
Because she was willing to give all those things up without even a moment’s hesitation.
What was it that enabled Mary to look past her personal sacrifice and welcome the will of the Father? She was the Lord’s servant, and nothing else mattered more than that. She knew the God of her fathers, the God of Abraham and Isaac, the Great I AM, could not be wrong. Her life was in His hands; she could open her heart to Jesus. What had she to fear?
Perhaps we can draw some encouragement from Mary this Christmas.
What hard things are you facing right now? What in your life is not going as you expected? Our heavenly Father can be trusted! Like Mary, we can open our hearts to Jesus, and allow our Savior to usher in the joy and peace that can only be found in Him. We can choose to look past our circumstances, even in the midst of pain and loss, and welcome the will of our Father.
May we say with Mary this Christmas, “I am the Lord’s servant. May it be to me as you have said.”
Jeff Allinder says
Yesterday’s blog was tough. You talked about graduate level parenting when some of us feel like we’re doing freshman level work. Challenging words, for sure.
Today’s blog is SO present for me. We have a friend who is just learning of very serious health issues, and that weighs heavily upon us. And even more, you remind us that God has not given us children just for the Instaface posts about how adorable they are or celebrating their achievements. There will be great joy and there will be great pain. Such is God’s plan for our lives, and we must rely upon Him.
Thank you for your faithfulness to this task. I look forward to your words and the reflection they bring me.
Thanks, Jeff! So sorry to hear about your friend. I don’t know why hard news always feels worse at Christmas, but it does. We have a few friends in similar situations this year, so I understand the heaviness. And this parenting thing certainly isn’t for the faint of heart, is it? So glad we can learn from one another! Your feedback and encouragement mean so much. Thank you!